39. Words #1
Loyalty. Loyalty is my favourite word. If I were to ever get a tattoo of a word on my body, it would be of the word “loyalty”. Loyalty always comes first for me, though it is temporary. Loyalty can last for a day, for a week, for a month, for a quarter, for a year, for several years. In rare cases, even for a lifetime. You cannot buy my loyalty or seek for my loyalty. My work and actions will tell you clearly how loyal I am to you. I will never personally tell you that I am loyal to you or your work. I’ve been loyal to very few people in my life and I would give my life for them, if needed. Loyalty is something that gets involved in everything you do in life.
Sex. Integral part of life. Love every little feeling involved. Everyone does it. There is a dire need to extinguish the social stigmas that revolve around sexual intercourse (especially with regard to sex before marriage). As far as there are two consenting adults engaging in this course of action, the world can go to hell.
Marriage. It is very sacred. It is a beautiful contract between two individuals who don’t mind living with each other for the rest of their lives. People should not get into it if they’re not a 100% sure. You’ll be causing a lot of damage if you get into it without putting too much thought into it. Damage can be immediate or 10 years later or even 50 years later. But, there will be consequences and people will get hurt.
Religion. Something man made to deal with their fears. Something man made to make money. Something man made to find solace. You really want something to deal with your fears and make money and find solace? Make your WORK your religion. And worship it.
Happiness. It’s all about perspective. You can find happiness in anything and everything if you look at it that way. Don’t fake happiness. But try to find happiness (even in extremely lame pj’s) and change your mood. I personally, find happiness in little things.
Selfishness. My friend introduced me to this thought. Why is selfishness always looked at in a negative perspective? Selfishness can be a positive trait. I completely agree. I am selfish. I want things/people in my life to be dedicated/loyal to me. I want to drive a Porsche Carrera GT. I want to own a wooden brick house with a huge lawn. And there is nothing wrong with being selfish as far as it doesn’t harm others in any way.
Reason. Everyone has a reason for why they are doing what they are doing. We are nobody to judge or pass comments on anything anyone does. From extra-marital affairs to murder to sex before marriage to drugs to prostitution to money laundering to stealing to giving birth to telling lies. There’s always a reason. I need to know what the reason is. Once I know it, I let them be. But I need an explanation and a reason to deal with and understand that situation.
Laziness. However funny and self-depreciating jokes I make about laziness, I personally will always view laziness in the negative sense. A person should never be lazy no matter how funny or cool it may seem. I hate that quality in myself. (I will overcome this obstacle one day and not be lazy). But yes, laziness doesn’t do anyone good.
These are a few words that I picked up and decided to write my thoughts on. There may be a part 2 when the time is right. Hope you liked them. Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.